I’m on antidepressants/anti anxiety meds. It take a little effort to get to an orgasm for me. My new partner prefers slower sex. Whenever I get close to orgasm, I have to stop bc it hurts her. I don’t mind too much but I think it makes her feel insecure that I don’t cum easily. Should I try to avoid masturbation or what? Not sure how to make myself cum easier…
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you probably got death grip
Any chance of changing your meds to a different one?
Anti-depressants are a pita and seriously screw with sensation and the ability to orgasm, but some people do find that they get on well with a different type.
try avoiding maturbation for a while and see if that helps, but if nothing improves after a month and your mood is stable enough to consider changing your medication, i’d give changing a try.
Try masturbating by slowly stroking head and frenulum. Take your time, it takes a bit longer but the reward is worth it. You can thank me later.