I love giving head, I enjoy it and there’s something pleasing about feeling my bf throb & pulsate in my mouth. But it got me thinking.
What makes a great blowjob?
What makes it enjoyable?
What do you enjoy?
Any tips on how I can give a great blowjob?
Ps. I’ve asked him what he likes and what he doesn’t share much just tells me to ‘do what you do’. He doesn’t really like his balls being licked or lightly sucked, just held in my hand.
All tips & advice welcome. I want to improve.
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Every guy is different obviously, so as a receiver I can only imagine it takes trial and error to find what makes a guy tick, I don’t really want to give instructions, because I’d feel over bearing, I like to just sit back and enjoy, and tell my partner what I like and that they’re doing a good job. Don’t be afraid to try new things and see what gets a good response, that’s what I do when I give oral.
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I for one, find blowjobs are more enjoyable when the women is enthusiastic about giving head
For me pleasurable is when there is no sudden and violent moves with her hands ending hurting my head or the foreskin,when she knows how to move it inside her mouth without teeth feeling like sharp razor but more importantly when she knows how to react during ejaculation ( if you cum with bj) so she won’t ruin your pleasure and hurt you at the same time. I remember one time, one girl keepn jerking me off even when i already had shooted all my load so i ended up having ball pain the rest of the night.
I enjoy the intimacy tbh, bjs seem so dirty to some people but I love them because it shows a deep intimacy that my partner is focused on me and my pleasure alone.
Or it just feels good because she’s sucking my cock idk lol
For me it’s about the little things,
Start slow, tease with kisses , some gentle teeth
use. (Very gentle). Soft rubs and squeezes with the hands. Soft moans here and there. Smiles, and eye contact 🥵. Gets me every time.
Step two : once I am hard she’ll start licking me a bit harder to coat it with saliva and then she’ll work up a nice shot of spit to place right at the top and then she will wait a second to let it trickle down before licking it all up.
Step three: keep a good rhythm and change up the sucking and licking patterns fluctuating with intensity. One hand working my Dick while the other runs my abs , chest or thigh. I’ll usually help by grabbing a handful of hair to keep it out of the way while gently pushing on her head. Biggest turn on when she looks at me while she’s doing it with saliva trickling out the corners of her mouth and down her chin.
Step 4: normally it’s part of foreplay so she doesn’t finish me to completion but if she wants to, then I’ll leave it up to her to “keep the change” or not. Either way I don’t complain.
Hope this helps OP ✌️.
It’s been a while since I’ve gotten a BJ, but when I did get them more frequent, I liked slow licks up and down my shaft. Pay attention to the tip and lick and suck on that slowly. I like getting my balls licked as well but it doesn’t sound like he likes that. I also liked being teased, having my pelvis area licked and kissed, my penis and balls gently kissed, etc
The most important thing for is is the eye contact, how she would look at me in the eyes as she enjoyed it.
Tease him. Edge him a little. Tell him you like blowing him.
BJ is about intimacy. If he see you confortable with his penis, he will enjoy it the most.