When I was in high school, I lost contact with friends from middle school. One day i caught up with them with my new girlfriend. She left me on our one year anniversary because one of those friends was hitting on her. Another “friend” then sent me pics of his backs with scratch marks (from sex if you didn’t guess).
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In college, i got attached to a girl and confessed it to a good friend of mine i made during the year. He proceeded to DM her on IG and hit on her when he knew i had a bit of a crush on her. I cut ties with him.
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Another girl i had a crush on (who ended up being a witch) was hitting on every single guy while we were at a party, even though she said she was into me. One of my guy friends actually got into her when he knew i already was trying to get into a relationship with her. He then cut ties with me
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I went in a foreign country with some friends (i took my car, they took theirs), one of my tyres popped on friday. On saturday we went to an amusement park, on sunday they went back home (to my country) leaving me abroad even though my tyre was not fixed. Happily some local people helped me fix my car while they were halfway home already. i cut ties with them.
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Last year i went on holiday with a really close friend and his family. We agreed to go back this summer. Last month he told me he had no money to go (even though i had already taken my days off work for the date we set), I offered him to pay for his holiday, even if it meant refunding me in 15 years, he said no. I offered to make his resume so he could find work and get himself some money (for the holidays but also just for his overall life). It turns out he ended up having the money, when i found out just today he went there with his GF. He lied to me by saying he was broke, he just wanted to change plans and go with his girlfriend rather than me, but didn’t have the courage to tell me.
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I always try to help my friends, back then with their homework, now with their resume, or with life in general. I’m considered a responsible, mature and down to earth so people always come to me for advice. But when i needed help because i was having a tough time, nobody has ever been there for me. And people have done so many shitty things to me.
It doesn’t actually make me sad, but i can’t help wonder why it happens. Am I too nice ? Does this happen to everyone ?