So I (25 F) have been living with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I desperately want to take our relationship to the next level (bedroom stuff). So recently I’ve had multiple attempts to seduce him into it.
I’ve worn skimpy outfits, snuggles, trying on lingerie infront of him.
But no matter what I do he doesn’t seen interested. He always tells me to “put some clothes on” or “I’m too tired”
People of Reddit I need advice :/
7 comments
What do you mean by next level? You mean try different things in bed?
Is this is real you’ll have to explain a bit more
Okay so you’ve been living together for three years? So when you say you want to be intimate was there ever a time in that three years that you were having sex? Like now he doesn’t want to? Or you’ve never been intimate?
He is either a selfish asexual or he is homosexual.
Nothing will ever happen (again) in the bedroom with him.
You can either ask about an open relationship or break up.
Is he asexual maybe? Or gay? It sounds horrible to ask but it’s definitely something to consider
Okay, so he hasnt wanted to have sex more than once in the 3 years that you have been living together?
He tells you to out on clothes when youre trying to seduce him?
You’re using R4R roleplay as ab outlet for your frustrated sexuality?
1) It is okay to acknowledge that the two of you aren’t sexually compatible.
2) Not having your needs met is a perfectly acceptable reason to break up. (You should btw.)
3) Dude is either asexual and incredibly selfish and unconcerned with your pleasure, or not into women and incredibly selfish and unconcerned with your pleasure.
Even people with mismatched libidos at least try to compromise if they actually care about each other’s happiness.
Does he often minimize other concerns you have? Does he care about what makes you happy?
Time to break up.
dump his ass – max from stanger things
Fr tho the best thing is to just talk about it with him. Is he gay or sm, our gf should turn you on.