Men, what made you fall deeply in love with your significant other?

8 comments

1. How silly she was. Her laughter is uplifting. Whenever she smiles, her eyes twinkle in a way that can take you out of the darkest places.

2. I could give you specifics such as her clumsyness, her care and so on. But what was the biggest eye-opener of “being in love” was when I realised I would give my life for her and actually mean it.

3. Dopamine and norepinephrine released into the pathways of my brain by my hypothalamus. That’s what did it.

4. Stupidity. Ive learned since then.

5. It sounds really ‘general’, but really isn’t. She was beautiful and a bit taller than average and I liked that. But what made me fall in love with her was that she was a GENUINELY good person. Like, I’ve never met someone who had such a good heart. When I met her family, I could see where it came from. Her father was a good man and married to her mom for over 30 years. Her older brothers were good men too with good women. She was surrounded by good people. Her friends are also well-adjusted people with good jobs like her. I’m actually pretty close with my in-laws and enjoy spending time with them as much as my own parents.

   She also had rare qualities I really liked in other women though they were lacking in the important ones. Good job, intelligent, was open to anal sex and ended up enjoying it.

   I can’t envision her doing anything ‘wicked’ to me like cheat. Plus if she did, her family would probably socially demolish her..

6. Nothing

   That’s why I’m forever single

7. She asked me to zip her dress and I just loved the intimacy. I put my hands on her shoulders and looked at her in the mirror then said she looks gorgeous in that dress. From then on she would always ask me to zip her dresses or help her with any clothing issues.

8. Her smile, her ride or die attitude, then she turned out to be a cheating, lying whore. Ah you win some you lose some.