I finished a long relationship a few months ago and now I don’t know how to make a move on anyone. I’ve been with some other girls since then but they are the ones who approach me, and it feels good but most of the time it doesn’t work with the ones I like.

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  1. Be friends. Don’t make sexual advances from scratch. At least know the person, and when you decide to make a pass, do it playfully.

    Playful flirting is significantly lower risk, and it communicates your interests without forcing the other person to make the decision to go out with you by confronting them with a confession.

    Just flirt. If they reciprocate, shoot your shot boi.

  2. Eye contact, smile and/or wink. See if they keep looking at you. If they do, approach them. Literally talk about anything, offer to buy them a drink if you’re in a bar. Observe her body language. Slowly escalate and even physically touch her waist if you have to lean in to hear her. If there’s prolonged eye contact when your faces are close go for the kiss.

    It’s a fine line between doing this well and misunderstanding the situation and being a creep, also can be hard to talk to somebody you dont know. the only thing that fixes both those things is practice.

  5. just start chatting to them, keep eye contact and her interest, ask if she want to catch up with you somewhere, if she says yes then you are in.

    Im not a fan of clubs and bars but literally anywhere most women i’ve dated that I didnt meet through friends or hobbies I met while waiting to cross the road.

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