Women, how often would you like your partner to go down on you and how often do they?

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  1. I’d like it to happen every time we get intimate. Usually it happens, but sometimes we skip it.

  2. I’d like for it to happen every time. But there’s often times where I feel hairy or dirty and don’t want that. So he actually goes down on me maybe once a month.

    I can be a little protective of “her” down there.

  4. I’d like it maybe every other time we get intimate but I’m really shy and self conscious so I usually don’t let him

  5. Currently single, but when in a relationship 99% of the time, and in past relationships it’s happened probably 95% of the time.

  6. Every time we are intimate is ideal but only if he allows me to return the favour.

  7. Maybe once or twice a month. I’d say that’s how much I currently receive. My fiance LOVES going down on me, but I become embarrassed (I don’t even know why), so I usually squeal and usher him away if he tries. Don’t get me wrong, it feels great, but it’s just not for me. ☺️

  11. I can really only orgasm that way or with a vibrator, but luckily I found I guy who has a cunnilingus kink and a kink for making his partner orgasm so we do everytime we get intimate.

  12. Personally, I’m not comfortable with the idea of having someone’s mouth near on or near my genitals (nor do I want to put mine on or near anyone else’s), so never and never.

  13. I feel like such a freak for saying this.. but I HATE anyone going down on me. It’s just… not good. I’ve had different partners do it different ways, tried to give feedback, but it just never satisfies me in any way. It’s boring. Lol so never would be ideal.

    I’m actually seeing a few replies similar to my view on this 🙂 nice to know I’m not alone lol

  14. Never. It’s not my thing. I think we’ve done it like 2 or 3 times, and we’ve been together for about 9 1/2 months. I don’t think it’s happened since I told him its not really my thing. Poor guy though, because he says he really enjoys it

  15. Not super often but my boyfriend will do it sometimes most the time I kind of like it when he fingers me anyways and play with my tits 😆

  17. I can’t stand it, at all, so never and never. oral sex isn’t really our jam.

  19. Maybe like half the time that we’re intimate he will. Sometimes I have to ask for it, and others I don’t. But whenever I do ask for it he always obliges. So I don’t feel like I’m missing out.

  21. I used to dislike it because I am very sensitive and none of the men I slept with were willing to listen to me and try things out, and I got fed up and told myself I didn’t like oral sex, when in fact it turns out they were bad. my fiancé over time has made it an incredible experience & now it happens almost every time we are intimate, sometimes even without intercourse. love it now lol

  22. Lesbian here. Everyday, ideally, and the same for the reverse direction, haha. I’m in a weird long-distance limbo with my girl right now but back when we were together, we probably averaged around 4-5 times a week. (I’m counting by sex session and not by individual orgasm, because there is hardly a pause, lol.)

    It is a given that we’ll each go down on each other during sex, unless one of us explicitly prefers otherwise, to mix things up.

  24. My SO could eat me out all day every day (his words). He loves to do it. Me, while he’s *extremely* good at it, my body enjoys it more than my overthinking mind and so I’m often not mentally ready for that and will turn down the offer.

  27. Never, I don’t like how it feels; it just feels uncomfortable and unenjoyable for me to be on the receiving end.

  28. Ideally, every time we have sex. Good thing he loves to do it, and does multiple times during a session. I haven’t always been this enthusiastic about receiving in the past, but my current partner is so damn happy to be down there lol

  31. I mean, every time we have sex would be awesome, and some really awesome guys I’ve been with do that (and I absolutely love to reciprocate, which becomes even more so when they do).

    My most significant ex wouldn’t ever go down on me, and would also get fussy if I did anything myself that would get me there, but I’d still go down on him sometimes. It kind of sucked, since it was hard for me to get there if he was just using his hands, and PIV wouldn’t get me there either. Adding a vibrator was also out of the question with him.

    But even though I’d like my partner to go down on me every time, I am the type to want to have sex every day. We all have shit to do, so a quicky without oral (or even, without oral beyond enough to get him hard quickly) isn’t the end of the world, because sex is about connection. My partner going down on me does make me feel more connected, though.

    Currently single, though lol

  32. Always and always. But we talked at the start of our relationship about how important it was for me. Fortunately, he digs giving it.

  34. Eh, it doesn’t do much for me. He would do it a lot more than he does if I wanted him to

  35. Every time we have sex and every time we have sex. Sometimes he just do it and after I come we go back to what we where doing before.

  36. I would like it all the time, at the very least once a week. It definitely feels the best. I really enjoy it . Used to happen all the time, now pretty much never.

  38. Every time we are intimate. It is every time we are intimate which is a few times a week.

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