I (27f) have been with my husband for over 10 years and we are the only people we have ever been with. We have great sex, but I have never had a vaginal orgasm. All of my orgasms have been from clitoral stimulation. My two best friends have said they also have never had a vaginal orgasm and only from clitoral stimulation. Is this something they anatomically I am unable to do or are there positions or stuff We can try? Ty!
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This is not at all uncommon
Try having him enter at an angle that gets your clit
In my experience, women do best on top where they can grind their clit hard. I don’t think that’s a bad thing, just female anatomy.
Many people don’t realize how super common this issue is. Most woman I’ve discussed this with (including myself) haven’t had a vaginal orgasm through sex. A lot of people think there’s something wrong with them. Simply put, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. Sadly the porn industry also contributes to people having the common misconception that woman orgasm through vaginal sex alone. Many don’t realize that porn is a lot of acting, faked orgasms, & intentionally done so for the viewers entertainment. That then makes people think there’s something wrong with them. One of the many reasons why porn can be seriously destructive & set unrealistic standards and expectations in the bedroom.
There’s nothing wrong with you, it’s completely normal. Don’t beat yourself up over it!
There are many humans who can’t.
Okay so as I’ve read comments and y’all should know a few things:
1. There is no such a thing as clitoris/vaginal orgasm. It’s just the way of stimulating clitoris as it’s not as small as you could think and I goes deeper into body. Internet should have picks.
2. Most of woman don’t experience this kind of orgasm and use penetration as additional stimulation.
3. There no evidence of g spot existing. There’s no magic button and nothing will work for everyone. The “spot” you call feel in this place is something else which naming I don’t know in English.
So it’s all completely normal! Don’t worry, just enjoy yourself
Coital alignment technique is supposed to work
Neither have I, that’s just how some (technically most) peoples with vaginas’ bodies work. Nothing is wrong with you.
28 yr old woman here and never been able to vaginally orgasm. Im a clit orgasmer all the way!
Try the CAT position if you haven’t. Google it.
Welcome to being a member of the vast majority of women. I, also, have hardly met anyone who can do this. I think that because we see it in movies, porn, books and we hear about it through men whose lovers faked it, we think it’s more common than it is. But, because we see it so much, we tend to believe it is what men prefer, thus people fake and try everything to “achieve” it.
Most women are like you. Rub your clit during sex if you want to climax during penetration. Don’t believe men who tell you ‘everyone else I’ve been with did’.