Well, gents. my time has come. What do you do to find your happiness and sense of community after a major social disruption? I’m lost af

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1. can you rephrase that question please?

2. My brother in Christ, what cataclysmic event transpired for this to occur? Did you fuck somebody’s grandmother?

3. I know exactly what you’re going through man, the same thing happened to me. Dated a girl, always saw her friends, neglected my own and didn’t find a separate social life.

   What are your hobbies/interests? Is there any skill you’ve wanted to learn or talent you want to acquire? You didn’t state your age which leaves some questions hanging but generally participating in clubs and hobby groups will open up opportunities to make friends and build a social life.

   I personally never had a proper social life until this year myself. I’ve been a musician for 11 years but wasn’t playing all the music I wrote live so I finally went out and found the music scene. Now I know a ton of people in town and (although it’s a small city) I run into people I know at practically any event which makes socializing easy.

   Best of luck to you, you’re worth the time and effort and people will see that in you.

4. Come To Life Lyrics

   Wookiefoot Come To Life

   You are your mother
   And you are your father
   You are the beauty and disaster
   Of all your ancestors
   And you, you come to life

   We are our grandmothers
   And we are our grandfathers
   We are the comedy
   We are the tragedy
   The actor and the author
   And we, we come to life
   We come to life

   You can take this seed and smash it open and still you’ll never find
   The oak tree hiding inside
   Said yeah you can take this seed and
   Smash it into bits and still never find
   The oak tree hiding inside yeah

   Dream repeated and a dream retold
   Passed along the patterns in the epigenome
   Sometimes it feels so damn controlled
   But now it’s time to wake up
   All these roots of thought just weigh me down
   I can see there my way out
   Voices from the past start to shout
   It’s time to make them all (?)

   With insight and without pain
   Nothing to lose, nothing to gain
   Come to Life
   We come to life
   With intention, without tension
   Without words of each dimension(?)
   Come to Life
   We come to life
   Oh hey we come to life!

   Oh we’ve got it all
   We’ve got everything we need
   See this world is becoming awakened
   A new direction being taken
   One by one we’re gathering a full stampede and
   We gave it all
   Cause there ain’t nothing that we need
   Cause we’re coming to life come a brand new day
   Never too late to change our way
   Supported by a forest of our family trees

   You can take this seed and smash it open and still you’ll never find
   The oak tree hiding inside
   Said yeah you can take this drop of water
   Analyze it to the end of time
   Not see the ocean inside

   Someday we’ll all be somebody’s ancestor
   The foolish, the clever
   The hero, the jester
   Blessings and curses handed on down
   We can write how the story turns out
   Move information through generations
   Mythological map to the treasure
   Hear the echo when we listen
   Hear the echo now

   With insight and without pain
   Nothing to lose, nothing to gain
   Come to Life
   We come to life
   With intention without tension
   Without words of each dimension(?)
   Come to Life
   We come to life
   Oh hey we come to life!

   We are our sons
   And we are our daughters
   We are the entire ocean
   We are just a drop of water

5. The Dream of Mars never dies.

6. I think the easiest way to make friends is to meet people that share a particular interest or hobby. No need to break the ice on what the other person likes, you share the interest too.

   What do you like to do?

7. Learn to find contentment in solitude. If you need social interaction, then look for groups where you share a common interest.