She’s never experienced an orgasm before, even when she’s gotten very aroused. The only time she says she gets “close” is when I finger/fuck inside her vagina. I’ve used all my energy to try to get her to orgasm with all kinds of methods, strokes, etc, but it just hasn’t gotten quite there yet. Is it possible that a woman just wouldn’t be sensitive in the clit? Because that’s where I mainly have gotten my partners to cum in the past.
My next step will be to try sex toys on her, so I’ll keep y’all updated if this helps.
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There are 12 types of female orgasms. Maybe she’s not into clitoral? The clitoris is the most common sex organ with women and (for me) the easiest to reach her climax, so far with all the sex partners I had.
But maybe you should explore her cervix, the G-, A-, U-spots, doing some also anal play. I had one time her climax by stimulating her nipples, she said this was a very different experience. Alas, only succeeded once, still trying to do it again.
Could be also some trauma, not necessarily sexual trauma. If this is, a Yoni healing could do wonders, a session or 3 should do. Will also be noticeable for you as her sex partner. I did.
Clit sensitivity varies massively between people, from little sensation all the way to overstimulation.
I’d say you’re deffo on the right track with trying toys. I’d suggest a g spot vibrator as it seems she gets a lot more from the internal stimulation. Also could be somewhat psychological on her part so make sure you’re both in a good open place and relaxed – and no pressure! Good luck!