(stupid question alert)
at first i couldn’t handle it and it hurt too much.
now even if he goes full in i can handle. at the same time my vagina seems to have expanded. is this possible?
for years i’ve had sex before this bf, my pussy never once “expanded.”
it’s not momentary either.
2 fingers barely fit inside but now 3 fingers fit.
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It’s a muscle (basically), it can get more flexible
You’re giving me hope! I’ve been avoiding big johnsons because I tried one and couldn’t take it! I usually go with very average or below average. Gonna take your post into consideration in the future!!!
well jsut like if you were training to be more flexible or to get stronger ex biceps as you work the group they get stronger and also streatch to accomodate more muscle or lengthen. but if you stop stretching or training the muscles will over time return to their previous untrained state so nothing to worry about for future partners
It’s a flexible muscle designed to push a baby out. So no. It’s like a muscle used in weight lifting.
If your used to an exercise you won’t get sore unless you push the limits. If you do not lift weights and suddenly try to go heavy reps or heavy weight you will feel discomfort or pain.
They women you see that get stretched in porn videos are literally trying to get stretched. They use huge toys and or fisting regularly to keep that size of a gape. If they stopped it returns to a more normal size.
Congratulations you’ve leveled up!
I think when you have sex with one person consistently, your vagina “molds” to fit with them. Sex was difficult for me at first too (I was a virgin and liked being pounded— still do). But now that’s not an issue, and my fiancé recently told me that my vagina is perfect for him (that made me really happy lol).
That’s how I learned how to squirt. I had to flex my vagina muscles to prevent internal injuries from my boyfriend’s huge dick. My pussy got so strong and we got so good at what we liked and he WANTED to see me pleasured so one magical day… IT happened. I had to Google it. (Before smart phones) No one we knew, personally had experienced it… It was life changing and we both enjoyed it. We made it a goal to keep me squirting…. BEST SEX EVER …
Sadly he passed away 10 years ago, but now i have these awesome sex powers that every man craves and I’m holding out for the one who deserves me this time around….
it’s possible, and if it doesn’t feel as good, just go your kegels and you’ll be aaight
Big is how big ?
Its no different than training your asshole to fit larger butt plugs or dildos. Same with your vagina. Its a muscle, it adapts. I wouldn’t worry about it.
Alot of lube and slow thrust foreplay is a must
For the most part that happen to me when i first got with my ex bf I got really sore and actually tore skin and all. I was very hesitant to have sex we just used lube than one day to another I as well got used it I was with him for a year and some months. Sex drive was super high after I got used to it. I been abstinent bc I can’t go back to average like I’m not even trying to be that person and be a critique because i wasn’t before but it just doesn’t hit the same.
I feel like later in life this is gonna bite me in the ass and I’ll be married to a mediocre size.
No offense to my average homies. I feel like my comment was just way TMI lmaooo but fuck it it’s Reddit.
I wish a women would speak about me like this, but that will never happen because of my small dick.
This is the story behind Madonna’s “like a virgin”
Weird how people always say that vaginas don’t stretch if the woman has sex a lot but everyone on here says they do
From my experience, its normal for your kitty to change like this. It “calibrates” to what you’re having even if it’s big to small or small to big
How big is it?
same happened with my gf, although even after 3-4 years of being sexually active, if i push all the way in, like balls deep type thing, it does hurt her. Which while flattering is not the desired outcome lmao
is that why you were posting content in /r/tinder 12 days ago lmao?
I think comfort plays a huge role, lots of sex is mental, especially with the workings of the vagina (lubrication and expansion) which also may explain why it never expanded like that for others.
Enjoy it! He definitely will enjoy the extra depth capacity
Lol same for me. All my past partners were under 6 inches but my current boyfriend can be from 7-8 1/2!! Our first time I felt like I couldn’t take it in missionary but now I can take it hard in doggy!! I live for it honestly!!
Do kegel excercises
Definitely have the same experience! My BF is really big and when I first started hooking up with him there was a part of me that thought “maybe its a little bit too big”. Not so! My body definitely adapted to him and now the pleasure is incredible!
It’s a muscle so it can get used to but it also can also get back in it’s “original” form. You can try some kegel exercises.
If a woman isn’t having sex regularly she loses elasticity, and that elasticity depends on the size of what she’s having sex with.
I’m fairly long, and my old fwbs had to…practice…a lot before they got used to getting me regularly.
Yeah definitely, it can snap back into place aswell if you don’t put anything in for a while too. My pussy got a fist in and can still be really tight when he fucks me.
The Pusey is flexible bb – you’ve done the yoga and now you see the gains. Cool thing is she can and will get snatched back, keep up with your kegels and you’ll be a real vagenius in no time
Good for him. He made her go from a tight end to a wide receiver.
Honestly, guys have always said that this happens to women’s vaginas and women can be “looser” than others, and women have always insisted that scientifically it cannot happen etc.
Off course that’s possible. I mean.. maybe some day a whole baby head will fit through 😂
Is it wide enough to hide my weed stash ?
My (now ex but still something there, very complicated) gf couldn’t take me all the way it hurt her very much, it usually got better if we had sex often. is there anything you did differently to help, like position or mentally ? Or did it just become less of a problem the more you took it
That shit dead
And they said this doesn’t happen🤧💯
Appreciate you exposing why a high body count matters😆🤣💯