A guy had asked me out a couple of months back (we only connected online, but were in different cities). And he was also looking for a relationship. But he said, he’d be only interested in connecting once I was in the same city (which was about to happen). So I lost connection. Now that I am in the same city, is it a good idea to hit him up?
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Hit him up but ask yourself if neither of you didn’t want to make the effort to travel X amount of hours to see each other, is this someone you want to be with? I have a hard limit of 2 hours travel time myself unless this is someone I’ve been seeing before and they move away.
Yeah just hit him up with a simple hey how are you. Do you know any fun things to do in (whatever city you’re in)?
Go for it. Got nothing to lose, right? He probably was just being pragmatic about the LDR stuff. He probably still likes you.
If I was you I would contact them and hang out.
Personally, I’ve done LDR and have no desire to do it again. It was incredibly hard and VERY difficult to make work. I would not fault someone for setting that boundary and not wanting to do that; it’s intentionally signing yourself up for a lot of heartache.
Nah I don’t think thats the case. LDR are really tough. There’s a girl I like a lot but she lives a couple states away and having did a 6month LDR last year, I really don’t want to do one again. If she lived near me I’d love to be in a relationship with her.