25 now, when i was in my early 20s (20-21), having friends around wasnt really an issue but as time went on, we all went our seperate ways. Now being 25, engaged, me and my fiance only talk to maybe 2 people. Im good when it comes to existing friends, i listen, i check in on them, i ask them how they’re doing, i always try and plan something fun or even if theyre just feeling relaxing, coming over and talking.
But for some reason, nowadays it seems ive kind of forgotten how to make friends? How to approach someone via in person or online and start a conversation, keep it going, and actually keep in touch regularly. Partially, sometimes i do avoid reaching out to new people out of the fear of rejection and ive always seemed to take the loss of a friend alot harder than others (i would never project it onto them, i would just let them go if thats what they wanted without conflict).
How do you guys make friends? My fiance is great to hangout with, but we talk occasionally about how it would be nice to actually hangout with others