So I’m in a little bit of a rock in a hard place right now. I find myself between my (trans) girlfriend and my family. I met my girlfriend after months of talking and now I feel incredibly unsure. There’s things about my girlfriend I like but many of the aspects of being trans is becoming apparent. I am trying to give it a chance but there’s a picking feeling at the back of my head that tells me that I shouldn’t keep going with it. I’m not a socialable person, I mostly struggle irl talking with people and those I talk to online and my family at home I put into a high regard and it’s bugging me significantly that I cannot tell them that I am dating a trans woman. This is a big moment for me too as I never honestly done this before and I am a virgin too so I am susceptible to just “going numb” for the sake of the moment. What do I do here? Am I just not ready for dating or should I make the decision picking between my family and girlfriend?