I’m 27F and have never had an orgasm in my life.
Since I was 13, I’d lay on the side and put one leg slightly on top of the other while watching porn and squeeze… and I’d get a “pulsating” feeling for like 8 seconds. It feels good, but not mind blowing. I feel like if that was an orgasm, I’d know. Right?
I’ve bought dildos and vibrators of different kinds. If I put a vibrator directly on my clit, it will feel intense and I will pee. Not squirt, it’s yellow. Even if I empty my bladder. I will always have some pee come out. I don’t get that “orgasm” feeling like everyone talks about.
When I have PIV sex, it feels really good, but not to the point of having an orgasm. When my boyfriend goes down on me, it will start feeling too sensitive and I’ll ask him to stop.
I’ve given up on the idea that I will ever have an orgasm. That makes me really sad. I was just wondering if any sort of therapist could help me get there? Or pills? Or any advice?
What could I do? 🙁
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Have you tried dildo+vibrator together? Or anal stimulation? Nipple stimulation?
There is a certain condition, if i’m not wrong is called anorgasmia, where it’s impossible for you to achieve orgasm. You should see a doctor for a check about that
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You could try a sex therapist. They specialize in cases like yours. I’ve worked with one before and found her really helpful