Is it safe to try raw sex with my girlfriend, when she is on birth control?

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1. Depends on your standards for safe

2. Going to assume both of you are monogamous and tested for STDs so that’s not an issue. After that really just depends on what birth control she is on in terms of preventing an unplanned pregnancy.

3. Has she has been on it for a bit and has been taking it at the same time every day?

   Have you both been tested for STD/STIs?

   Do you trust each other?

   There is always a risk. it is 99% effective. That 1% is a bitch.

   All this said, been with my partner for almost a decade and we both have a breeding kink so I cum in her all the time and never had a scare.

4. Condoms are 99% effective and birth control has around the same odds. Using both would be the safest but relatively, the odds are the same between condom and no condom on BC. HOWEVER, bear in mind that missing one pill even by 30min on certain pills can drops their effectiveness quite a bit so it is a must that you set an alarm for her to take them ON time if you decide to go that route. Also consider spermicide lubricants

5. If she is *very* consistent with taking her BC (im assuming pills or implant? if hormonal IUD even better), you should be okay, but you have to both be on the same page as to exactly what your game plan is if she does get pregnant. If you aren’t adults, I definitely recommend continuing the multiple forms of protection. I personally am on constant birth control (no periods) because of endometriosis and my partner finishes in me several times a week – never had so much as a scare. If you choose to do raw sex, i’d recommend not cumming inside her most of the time – pulling out won’t reduce your risk as much as condoms, but it does lower your odds significantly when combined with birth control. It could also be a good idea for her to give her obgyn a call and get a professional opinion.

   tldr: if you’re both clear of STIs and reliable with birth control, you should be fine, just be smart about it and keep condoms on hand incase she misses her BC or something.