ok let me explain. the guy i like and would like to get more serious with broke up with his long time girlfriend kind of recently, and he still has all her stuff since they never talked again to exchange. they were supposed to right when they broke up but something happened and they ended up not, but i think he’s not sure if they will in the future. they don’t talk at all and he said that he’s over her, but all her stuff is in a box in the back of his closet. is it bad that he still has her stuff? i don’t really like that it’s still there but i also feel that i can’t ask him to get rid of it
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The real issue I see here is that you want to get into a serious relationship with him but are stopping yourself from telling him that you are ready for a serious relationship. As for his ex’s stuff, you can ask him to get rid of them after you ask him to be your boyfriend.
I don’t think it’s a bad thing and you’re overthinking it. I’ve held on to my ex boyfriend’s stuff for over a year. I guess because I was simply too lazy to send it back to him and ended up forgetting about it. I eventually sent it back to him a few weeks ago. Zero feelings for this guy