Long story short, I would like to recover a situation where I refused to get the number of a girl because I was too scared (yea I know). She asked me to come with me flying, I refused (different reasons.. and I’d like to get to know her better before doing so). Then she assumed I wanted her number and I refused from fear.
How do I recover from here ? Is offering her to grab a coffee or so and talk about going to fly, and tell her I’d like to know her better before that can happen a good idea or come off as a$$hole harsh?
In anyways earliest I can take her flying is probably going to be October, for other reasons not involving her.
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Just ask her out, she’s obviously interested.
Explain you cant go flying until October but in the meantime you could get to know eachother.
Its a no-lose situation. She’s either not bothered or you go on a date. Either way you should be proud as you’ll have overcome your shyness to ask.