OK, so how do I put this?
Now that I have finished school, my closest friends keep hanging out with their school classmates without me, and it’s irritating me because I also know the people they hang out with and I am friends with them, and I am assuming the reason behind it is.
Well, I have gone to a different school because the major I studied was different from theirs (but I kept in touch with them) and while it was inevitable, I hung out with my classmates too, but there’s a catch to it. They don’t know who my school classmates are.
Like the other day, I went to my classmates’ party and the next day they hung out and posted on instagram something that I had never seen them do.
When I asked them why they keep hanging out without me?
One of them said, “well you went to your classmates’ party the other day, didn’t you?” And I replied, ” Yes, I did, but it’s not like I hosted the party or something and didnt invite you guys, the party was hosted by my classmate, plus they dont even know you guys so what you said isnt a valid reason for not inviting me” and he went silent after that.
And over the course of this year, if I didn’t tell them let’s hang out, they would never have hung out with me.
I really don’t know the reason behind all of this. I just want some advice on what should i do? I really dont want to lose the friendship. If it boils down to a point where i should i end the friendship whats the best way in doing that?