Am i in a toxic relationship?
Hi I’m a 16 year old male and is in a relationship with a 16 year old female. Lately these past couple weeks me and her has been getting into a a lot of arguments. I don’t feel loved and it’s really annoying. Well a couple minutes ago I came to her house and a couple guys that kinda bully me has added her on snap, and I told her politely if she could remove them because they hurt me. And she started laughing and it really hurt me. I asked her if she could promise me if she could remove them because it really annoys me and makes me sad. These guys asked me for her snap to “ smash” and they found her snap in their own. And she started laughing whilst I was sad. She just said “ you can leave” and that made me feel like they were more important than me. Right now she’s sitting next to me watching tiktok and I’m here broken and sad while writing this. Please help me now so I know if I should break up with her now or not
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Maybe!! but also you might be best waiting a few years for serious relationships and just view bf/Gf stuff pre 22 as Micky mouse bull shit and don’t invest too much of yourself or leave yourself exposed to be hurt by gf or bullies.
You need to talk, ask if you can talk about it and tell how you told us, if(no=1)then { leave for good & don’t look back}
>She just said “ you can leave” and that made me feel like they were more important than me
I wouldn’t call it toxic but it would be a good idea for you to take her suggestion to leave. She has shown you that she doesn’t priorities your feelings.
It doesn’t sound like she’s very caring honestly. Idk what your regular relationship is like, I get that you’ve been arguing lately, that might be an indicator that she’s not that into it anymore. Maybe she’s done and just hasn’t had the guts to call it off. Doesn’t sound healthy at all.