Hey there, asking for a friend of mine.
My friend had a hookup not long ago and she told me the following: When things started to get serious, he intensively looked at her breasts and after a few seconds he just said „tiddies“ in a joyous and child-like manner while holding his hands up and doing a groping gesture while saying: „I love groping“. Her first reaction was to say „Oh my god“ and then starting to laugh about it. Not necessarily laughing with him about the situation.
A few days later she asked me, what the right way to respond to that situation would have been. But don’t really have a clue.
Did that ever happen to any of you and if so, how did you react?
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Why is sex supposed to be serious? I think that was cute
Uncomfortably laughing at someone saying something not sexy/funny is a normal response. I would be so turned off.
It depends on their sense of humor! My SO and I joke around all the time during sex. If I had to guess what my SO’s reaction would be if I were to say that to her, it would probably be along the lines of “Scrotum! I love groping” lmao
I’m 38 years old and love me some tiddies. I dont care if I’ve seen every tiddie in the world I’ll still get excited and want to stick them tiddie(s) in my mouth. I hope I never grow up in this regard.
“That word doesn’t really turn me on, could you try calling them [x] instead?”
Not everything is made to be taken seriously or to be researched on. Or to be talked about.
Sounds like he was incredibly nervous and tried to break the ice on an accidentally hilarious manner.
Honestly, unless this is a complete and utter deal breaker for your friend, I’d advise her to self reflect on why this out her off. Was it simply just unexpected? Not manly? Too cute? Something else?
I’d assume the hookup was nervous as heck and gave in to those nerves inadvertently, he’s tried to calm his racing heart by creating humour, this is just my assumption of course but on face value I’d find it kind of sweet.