I’ve been trying to find similar posts, but maybe I don’t know what to search.

My (24f) boyfriend (24m) was giving me head this morning and it was pretty good ngl. I could have gone longer but he came up after 10 minutes or so and said he finished. I was like “what really?” and he said yeah, my bed sheets show it.

I’m just wondering how common this is.

My boyfriend has told me before that he likes giving head, I just didn’t know that’s was even possible.

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  1. It’s definitely possible. It’s happened to me a few times. It’s not frequently, but when I’m really going to town and in the zone it happens

  3. I would say he very likely helped himself along. I get aroused, but not fully blowing a load.

  4. I’ve never finished while giving head (unless it was 69), but definitely could….not from the act alone, but from stroking or humping the bed while doing it.

    But if I did cum while giving head …. I would keep giving head until you did the same.

  6. Woman here so slightly different but I’ve definitely (almost) finished (I can only truly finish by very specific clitoral stimulation) by just giving head, no touching myself at all. Giving head does something crazy to my brain because of the pleasure. I love doing it and apparently my body loves it too. It surprised me when it happened but it’s happened a few times! So it’s totally not impossible! Probably not uncommon either.

  7. I get pretty aroused giving. It’s everything, her reactions, scent, everything! I probably would cum with no physical stimulation, but my wife has me put it in just before. I’m toast when she does that because the wetness, contractions, and facial expressions send me over the edge!

  9. Super turn on for me too but did he really leave you hanging? That’s such poor form. There’s absolutely no reason why he had to stop…sheesh

  11. This is why I like to alternate between pumping my dick in her and liking her. I want to taste her clit, but then my dick just keeps going *pleaaaase* so I come up for and the lil dude subs in for my mouth while I literally take a breather👌👌😅😅

  12. My partners take on this which absolutely cracked me up;

    “He finished so they finished?

    My brother in Christ- your dick was only a background character, why stop?”

    I’m a very fortunate individual ✨😂

    I think it’s way more common than people think from all the posts I’ve seen, but I’ve never encountered it irl.

  13. I’ve experienced that from one ex. He REALLY got off on giving head, especially if I sat on his face.

  14. Weird. I definitely don’t stop until she tells me. Hell, I’d gladly stay down there all day.

  15. I also cum giving her head. It make me so hot to feel her, to taste her .. that all makes me so horny … I really enjoy it and cum from it.

  17. It’s cool that he can can cum from giving you head but did you get to? It’s not clear in your post if you did or not but this seems kind of selfish. He’s only willing to go down on you until he gets off and then you’re on your own?

  18. Used to happen to me all the time. I hope you’re happy and not upset about it. Getting upset about that can really fuck with his mind.

  20. I’m incredibly jealous. Congratulations. Don’t ever let this man escape

  25. Happened to me before.

    If I go PIV immediately after giving my lady head, I’m busting in 1 minute or less.

  26. Only finished one time while giving head, was humping bed and managed to cum when she did.

  28. It has happened to me a couple times thru the yrs. Not a regular thing but I get very turned on by going down on my wife. I LUV her scent, her taste & her enjoyment & reaction to me face fv<kin her. The few times it happened, I stayed at the “Y” until SHE finished, then had to explain why I needed a minute or 2 to recoop before moving on to more penetrative options.

  30. That is a bummer if you didn’t finish and he did. And I’m not sure if the following can help the situation of having your pussy eating more (or if that’s the problem here.)

    Eating pussy can wear out a neck and jaw to point of pain, that is, unless you have a conversation about or you experiment with or he looks into more comfortable pussy eating positions that are not as straining. Then he can go your orgasmic distance with far less effort on his part. And hopefully, while he’s pleasuring you in the moment, if his sex communication is strong, he can reposition you or ask you to reposition in a hot way. Or position you better in the first place. For me, if a woman puts her ass on a pillow and elevates the pussy, it makes the experience less taxing and thus much more fun for me.

    Again, the problem for him might be one of strain or discomfort leading him to stop right after he cums or before you get to. And with all things negotiation (you want more oral sex to completion) you have a stronger negotiating position and are more likely to ask for what you want in the right way if you have an understanding as to why he is not giving it to you. Then once he’s opening up about it (anger and accusations against him won’t work) you can figure out his motivations / issues in order to give him what *you* want.

  31. I’ve come extremely close but don’t get why he stopped. I ain’t pulling my head away until they beg for me to stop or to fuck them.

  35. I’ve done this before. Though I usually try to edge myself, sometimes I slip up and cum. Bummer that he just stopped when he was done though. That was a little selfish.

  36. I’ve never climaxed while doing it before, but it is everything. I cannot finish until I’ve made my wife cum. Making her feel great is the very best thing about sex.

  37. Sounds like the solution is for him to give you head until he pops without touching himself

  38. The guy I’m seeing gets more turned on / is more hard from going down on me than basically anything else ¯_(ツ)_/¯

  39. I have a thing for rubbing against the leg or foot. And I’m not a foot guy, it’s just available.

    I’m also confused by him being finished meaning you are finished. But hey, that’s cool if it’s cool.

  41. I really love eating pussy. When I was younger I could cum just from humping the bed. I choose not to since I’d like to put my penis to better use

  42. Eating pussy is one of my favorite things, so yes it’s turned me on so much that I have cum

  44. It’s a turn on for those of us who are pussy licking aficionados. My penis gets super hard when I lick pussy.

  45. I have a penis and I also regularly finish or get close when giving my vagina having partners head.

    This is a sexual green flag and a sign your guy is a keeper, as he likes sexually satisfying you.

    If you want to continue having sex after he cums some advice

    – Never call him cumming “finishing,” it puts a mental cap on the sex session. It also might make him feel shame for in too quickly and trust me you don’t not want him to feel anytype of shame for having some of the best feelings in the world while giving YOU head.

    He just needs some cooldown time, which means time for smooches, and more exchange of oral sex.

    If y’all wanna elevate your sex life and lean in to him giving you sexual attention, consider checking out r/gentlefemdom .

  46. i usually jerk off whilst giving oral to my girlfriend, have finished plenty of times that way. my partner usually finishes when she sees that im about to also

  47. He should’ve taken care of you to completion regardless….

    Ive gone down on a past so and been so turned on eating her out that my dick hurt. I’ve never blasted off purely from arousal.

    I have had one time I was stupidly horny after basically 3 days of foreplay before we ended up in the bedroom where I came after grinding against the sheets a few times by accident. She enjoyed seeing it and I kept going till she got off

  49. I’m not a guy but I definitely get wet and so turned on when I’m going down on someone! If it’s in bed then I’ll jump my pillow or their leg too lol

  50. I’ve gotten super close to doing this. It’s pretty hard for to cum in general, so it’s something that might happen with me, it might not.

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