Open discussion for making your girl orgasm.

Guide, and open discussion

In my experience, tips to make (almost) any women orgasm:

1. Slow. Down. Take your time and be sensual. Make her feel comfortable and safe, not like your middle school sock under your bed. Don’t you want to stretch it out and enjoy yourself anyways?

2. It’s all about anticipation, light touches on the inner legs are great, kissing down the torso and back up right when you get to her waist, etc.

3. Foreplay. Foreplay. Foreplay. 100% the most important (and most fun) part of sex. Every insecurity you may have, can be beaten by good foreplay. Small penis? Foreplay. Quick trigger? Foreplay. Remember that most women do not orgasm from penetration alone and need clitoral stimulation. Learn some anatomy and eat up.

3.5. When going down on a girl, fingers first on outside then to g spot, doing a “come hither” motion. Then, start slow and kiss the area around the vulva. Start with light licks all over, gradually increase pressure and speed to her liking as you focus more on the clit. Never fails.

4. Don’t jackhammer. Even if she likes it, it’s not an every time, all the time thing. Focus first on turning her on, she should be wet before your dick is anywhere near her. Next focus on rhythm, not force. Start slow, then build up speed, force, etc.

5. I feel like most people know this by now, but for the love of god do not speed up what you’re doing when you see she reacts well to something you do. Keep doing EXACTLY what you did.

6. Invite communication about hers and yours likes and dislikes, have her tell you what feels good or get good at body language (breathing changes, back arches, etc.).

Bonus: you’d be surprised at how much conversation or bar date, and the chemistry that comes with it, can do for the sex.

Any other tips?