Male (20) female (20) me and my girlfriend have sex frequently, she convulses and squirts but she tells me that I’ve never made her orgasm .
Idk if she is lying or what, or I’m just ignorant about there being a difference between cumming or a orgasm. She said she has been lying to me this whole time about pleasing her but there is actual proof that she is cumming.
squirt/convulsions, and her whole entire body gives out.
Moans are irrelevant though because they can be faked, but she does moan.
TL;DR I think she is lying about our sex life
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Does she masturbate, and therefore know what an orgasm feels like? If she doesn’t do that at all, and never has, then I’d say she’s mistaken, because squirting and convulsing and so on certainly sounds, uh, orgasmic to me…
I don’t know what you mean by squirting, because this is incredibly rare in women. If you mean that she is wet down there, that just means that she has turned on – nothing to do with actually having an orgasm. Also, it is incredibly easy to fake an orgasm by squirming around and squeezing your pelvic floor muscles. Get her to describe what she is feeling, and you should probably know whether she is describing an orgasm or not.
If she said she never had an orgasm she never had an orgasm. You can be wet and quiver and moan and still not have an orgasm. I don’t know why you’re seeking out the internets advice to help undermine her. The only person that can know is her
I squirt. It’s not the same as an orgasm. Squirting feels like I’m releasing pressure. It feels good but like taking your shoes off at the end of the day good. Like a relief. When I orgasm I don’t squirt and it’s an entirely different feeling.
So no she’s not lying and it’s kinda shitty you didn’t take her word for it. Why do you need the internet to tell you? If she’s telling you it’s not the same as an orgasm you should be believing that..?
I know I’m probably in the minority but, I can have an orgasm from PIV (not a lot of women get off like this) or from clit stimulation and I also squirt. They all feel different and if she is telling you she DOESN’T orgasm then she DOESN’T orgasm. Period. If she had an orgasm she would KNOW. She’s not a liar.
It’s incredibly hard to explain but you can absolutely cum and not have an orgasm. The best way to describe it is cumming is a bodily sensation whereas an orgasm feels like your body and mind and senses are overloaded with a great big warm wave. Which is not to say that cumming doesn’t feel good, but it’s not as intense or overwhelming as an orgasm. Like, I can orgasm for several minutes but I’m not cumming the whole time, if that makes sense?