I don’t get how you talk about this stuff really, I have a lot of kinks. I feel like telling him I want to try certain things etc, but I’m not sure how to bring it up without it being weird. How do I turn this into an actual conversation?

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  1. Maybe do one of these quizzes like mojoupgrade, where u both answer questions about your kinks. If they match, you’ll see it.

  3. Most of the time, it’s just easy to ask them “Hey, can I talk to you about something? In the bedroom, I kind of want to try X, how do you feel about that” Then go from there.

    Don’t worry about sounding weird, you’re in some kind of relationship, so you have to have some kind of rapport with your partner. Use that.

  5. I like old, “i had a hot dream last night” or “saw something in porn” or “i think it would hot if…” you want a positive top spin that makes it fun and exciting not like your telling this person you have an STD.

  6. The hardest part of these conversations are simply starting them. Say you are embarrassed but you think it’s important to discuss what you like and what gives you pleasure. Once that happens it gets more comfortable. May I suggest to start slow with sharing your kinks if you two haven’t had any experience together with kinks. It may be a bit overwhelming if you go from straight average sexual activity to expressing all your kinky desires.

  7. I am also very kinky and like to try a lot of things that most people probably wouldn’t. My partner is much more “vanilla “ than me. I’ve found it’s best to just have open and honest communication together. It’s worked very well in my relationship. Feel free to DM any questions or info you don’t want to post on here. We don’t mind!

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