I recently became exclusive with my girlfriend, and we started having sex this week. I can fuck her slow and deep no problems. But as soon as I start pumping hard and going faster, she will orgasm. They last about 10 seconds and her body starts slightly shaking, her eyes roll up into her head, and her vagina tightens up. Her vagina is pretty sensitive, so I gotta wait like 15 seconds before I can stick it back in and continue. When I stick it back in, everything is fine and I can thrust no problems. But as soon as I start thrusting hard she will orgasm like this again.
The most I can recall her orgasming during one session is like 12 or so. This is great and I feel like a champion. But it really kills the process of me being able to cum from all the starting and stopping. Now I’m not trying to be selfish, but I’d love to be able to cum as well, haha.
What can we do about this ?
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Have her blow you when she’s had enough? See if shes willong to try to power through between sensitive spots?
I’m not at all speaking for all women here, just giving an example based on an experience I had.
I dated a woman for a while in a very similar situation. What worked for her was learning how to actively *relax* her pelvic floor muscles. When she eased up, there was a bit less tension inside and she could go a bit longer between orgasms.
She still came a lot, but was able to hold pace for longer as well.
Wow! I struggle to just have a single O…
Maybe just cum the same time she orgasms?
They have some numbing gels that might help her “last longer”, problem is they’ll also work on you
Speaking for most males, you don’t know how good you’ve got it. Enjoy it! Just.. enjoy.
My ex had this issue as well. We found one trick that helped. If her clit is really sensitive put a big drop of a goopy lube right on her clit, something like KY jelly. Don’t rub it in, try to use it as a thin shield. If thats not working id experiment with some different positions. We found prone bone to be the worst in her lasting and reverse cowgirl the easiest so maybe try something new position wise.
I had a partner like this. We figured out which positions didn’t give her that pressure. I would fuck her in missionary until she had a couple of orgasms the switch to doggy style or spooning for me to get there. It was occasionally frustrating, but I wouldn’t have let her go for the world. She was the best in bed I have ever had or will likely ever have. She was a squirter too. It got messy sometimes!
I once encountered the same. Just keep pace and let it ride she’ll love you afterwards promise
Im pretty sensitive too down there so i get her lol only thing is i keep on going cas it feels really good. Maybe she should keep going but at a really slower pace and build it back up
Humble brag bro
You need help. A helping understanding man beside you.