He’s a dear person to me that just turned 18. He’s extremely mature, and we have similar life experiences that we relate to each other on, like both our parents being divorced, being the older siblings, etc. he’s supported me through a really rough breakup that I went through when the pandemic and quarantine first started.
He wants to date me, and I want to date him, but I’m 25, and I’m telling him that if he wants to wait a little longer that he should focus on college first since he’s starting soon.
Also I don’t want to deprive him of any other experiences he may have with people while he’s there. But he says he just wants me.
I’m just now getting over a 5 year relationship where the guy I was with was unsure about what he wanted.
I think this guy I’m head over heels for deserves someone who’s secure and ready for commitment in a new relationship, and I’m pretty much at that point, but I just really want him to focus on the first year or two of college before making anything official.
Tbh I think commitment makes me anxious after my ex and i’m also a little apprehensive because of the age difference. Like he’s legal and everything, but still, it invites some to question my intentions, and I literally have no intentions aside from wanting to love him as best I can.
Some advice would be appreciated. Thanks, Reddit ❤️
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Fuck, this made me cry.