It’s hard to explain, but I think I have a general idea of the things that I’m into. It’s very difficult for me to explain, let alone express, the things I THINK that I like. Idk

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  1. Just tell us what are u dreaming about u can texplain action in ue visons

  2. Find videos of things that you think you’d like. Show them to your partner.

  3. Take the “general ideas” of the things your into and examine them, look for patterns and try to think about the specifics of these general ideas that you like ask yourself “Why do I like this?”

  5. You know I think it’s OK to have a general idea and I totally get that it can be difficult to express that in specifics. I think whether this matters is the context. If you have a partner and want to explore, it might be helpful first to just give that general idea, even just as an opener, like, “I think I might want to try some new things.” And then just let the discussion evolve a little bit. And maybe even just, try some things.

    Someone below suggested one of the myriad “kink tests” and I think that’s actually a great idea, with or without a partner. It’s great with a partner, each fill it out and then share the results. It helps because you both know what you both know! So you can see where you really match up, and where you really don’t. (I like the kink list in DPP because it has gradation: favorite/like/OK/maybe/never, so you can see if it’s a favorite of one and a maybe of the other, you can then discuss “maybe under what conditions?”)

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