My lack of interest/pleasure? Is killing my sex life and in turn hurting my relationship. My boyfriend (m21) and I (f20) have been together 3 years, when we had first gotten together right before I had been SA. It took a while for me to be fully okay with sex in general but I got better and we’ve had much better sex life. We actively get better as time goes on and I always have night where I’m like wow you are not the same duck I had 2 2 years ago. But as of recently I’ve gotten bored, I had never came after a year of dating my partner and not until I bought myself a vibrator I figured out what I liked more and now the only way I can cum is from the vibrator or sometimes PiV if we (sorry he) can last long enough. I just don’t know what to do I like getting head and being fingered but it never gets me to finish it’s just not enough. It’s gotten to the point where sometimes I get so worked up during intercourse i start tearing because he’s basically tapped out and I feel touch starved. He’s always down to start again once he can but by them I’m in a lousy cranky mood
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if he cant last long enough then ask him to masturbate regularly. i tried to masturbate daily and it helps, especially when my wife is riding me cos i cant control the rhythm.