I(M23) matched with a girl on tinder (F22) I quickly proceeded to get her Snapchat, and spoke to her
constantly for the next couple of days, it turns out that she lives extremely close to me, which is great!

I asked her out on a date, she said yes and I took her for a few drinks, the date went great, conversation was flowing, took her back to hers, we kissed and said we would see each other the following day.

So fast forward to the next day, we have again been speaking via Snapchat all day, I pick her up for our date and we head into town for more drinks this
time as she wanted to stay out longer. We go to a few bars, get slightly drunk, kiss a lot and get very touchy feeley. I suggest we just stay in a hotel, as
it’s about 25 mins back to hers and a further 10 to my house, she suggests we stay at hers. I think great!
We get a cab back to hers.

Now for some context, this girl had just come back to her parents house from being at uni for 4 years. She has been at home for 3 days, I knew this was
her parents house we were going back to, however I didn’t think anything of it as she had invited me back.

So we get back to hers and get into her room, all of a sudden I hear her parents start screaming and shouting, she leaps up to go into the hallway to stop
them coming into the room, this goes on for 5 mins before she comes back in and says lets stay at mine instead. I say okay and we go outside, she says she left
something back upstairs, runs up and I hear the shouting resume. I wait for a few mins before she messages me saying i should go. The time is now 3.30 AM, so I just call it a night and go home.

I send her a message when I get home trying to see the funny side of it and tell her not to worry. I then go to sleep.

I awoke around midday, and had received a message from her at 4.30 saying it had all kicked off and she is going back to her UNi town.

I sent a message back and it stayed on delivered until that evening, I checked her profile and it says “add friend”

Why would she have deleted me??

It was going so well up until that point… I get she is probably mortified, but I don’t really care, it’s just one of those things?

TL;DR had two dates with this girl, we were really into each other, went back to her parents house. her parents kicked off and now she has deleted me.

2 comments
  1. i mean, you were probably just a fling she was interested in seeing while she happened to be in town, now that she’s no longer in town and with the drama compounded on top, not much interest anymore.

  2. Maybe she’s embarrassed. She’s the only one who knows and you may never know the answer.

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