I’m M18. My girlfriend, also 18 and I are in a long-distance relationship. We masturbate in front of each other on video calls. She uses a pillow between her legs. She insists that we cum together, as we usually do when we’re together. So, she and I cum together. But she can still cum around 3 times after. Don’t get me wrong, it looks amazing on video call. But after I cum, I’m not aroused anymore. I just have to sit and watch her cum while saying things to turn her on while I’m not at all turned on anymore. What do I do?
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That is just how it works. Male recovery times are much slower
That’s how the human body is designed. I recommend edging until she’s ready for her last orgasm.
Most men just aren’t turned on anymore after an orgasm. The body actually releases a chemical to make this happen, you also get sleepy. Some don’t have this but it’s rare.
Talk to her about it. If you edge (get close to Cumming and stop just before) when you do orgasm it will feel even better than a normal one.
Save yours for her last one.
Yeah, wait for her third or fourth orgasm before let yourself go.
Can you just wait until the end?
Talk to her, let her know. Rule number one is be open and honest with your partner.
It’s totally normal to feel unaroused after cumming for a guy.
What you do, is continue to do for her, because you’re polite. And then learn to edge yourself until she has cum 3 or 4 times, and let HER wait on YOU! It’s a two way road my dear!
You really could Google this. It’s called refractory period
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Here’s an answer nobody has said yet. Try working towards a prostate orgasm. Your girl has the G spot in her pussy, you have something similar not very far up your ass. I’m assuming you’re straight. I am too! I love anal play nonetheless, i just use toys!
LIKING IT IN THE ASS DON’T MEAN YOU’RE GAY. I think a lot of guys get scared off by that prospect. It takes a little bit of adjustment, but it’s honestly a lot of fun. The prostate orgasm can be hard to achieve, i’m still working towards it, but I will say that there are certain toys that make me feel INCREDIBLE and i’m certain i’ll get that orgasm before too long.
If you have questions about this, about the mental/psychological/emotional thing about being a guy wanting it in the ass, about how to start, about toys, etc, please reach out. I am happy to help.