Last weekend I met up with a girl at the bar whom I’ve seen before. One thing led to another and I ended up bringing her back to my place both Friday and Saturday. We tried to have sex the first night but it didn’t work.
The next night she invited me to the bars to meet her. We ended up talking most of the night and she wanted me to pick her up again after close. We went back to my place and we had much better sex than before.
However after she left she started acting weird. She didn’t bother texting me that whole day. I finally reached out and we texted here and there for the past week. She told me she doesn’t hookup a lot so I assumed that’s why she was being distant. I told her we can take it slower.
We talked about careers and personal stuff, which she seemed interested. Then I got insecure and started asking about a guy she hooked up with at the bar. She just asked does it matter. I said no and we moved on.
On Thursday night we were texting late at night. The last message I sent was “do you want to meet up this weekend or are you seeing that guy?” & “ I’ll be out this weekend again”. She didn’t respond at all yesterday. It’s Saturday night and she still hasn’t responded.
I went to the bar last night and I made eye contact with her friends. I said hello and asked if she was here. Her friends were still nice to me, which was confusing. They told me she wasn’t there last night but will be there tonight. Not sure why they would tell me this since I thought they’d lie for their friend.
So I found it weird that she went MIA and didn’t go out with her friends or respond to my messages. Now I’m worried because I may see her tonight and idk how to react. I want to say hi and talk a bit, but if she doesn’t respond to my texts then it seems like she won’t want to talk to me.
I’m considering sending one last message, making it a triple text. I want to apologize for asking about the other guy and ask if she’s going out. I’m not entirely sure if she just doesn’t want to talk or if she’s mad about my last message. But I figure apologizing might help and make it less awkward.
What do you guys think? Should I send her another text to make sure we’re on the same page? And maybe excuse what I said before? I’m just worried that if she doesn’t respond to that, then I’m likely to just avoid her at the bar. I already know that she’ll be there tonight, so maybe I should just wait to talk in person?