I made match with a guy 2 weeks ago and we talk A LOT every single day. We met for the first time one week after and we talked all night and nothing else happened. Next week on Thursday we went to a club with some friends of him were be kissed and on saturday we went to a club again were we ended up sleeping together. Now this monday i will see him again.
The thing is that both of us have busy lifes and today he even had a major surgery on an eye and we will meet anyways. I think its starting too intense and idk what yo do because I really want to see him everyday and I’m looking for his messages a lot
Any experience or advice?
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Be careful about starting too intense because it can just end up being a fling… but ultimately if you really yearn for this guy and he does too, why not? It’s going to be hard to pull it back anyway because your body will just fight it. This is your honeymoon phase so it is what it is.
it’s not always a bad sign, thin’ if you like it and if yes go on with it but if not, make your boundaries. maybe you’ll match up or maybe not
In my experience, stuff that starts out hot burns out fast too. Doesn’t mean it can’t be a nice and meaningful experience.
Maybe he’ll stuck around and it will work out. Maybe it won’t. Enjoy the moment. Have fun. What happens, happens and what doesn’t happen, doesn’t happen