In my experience, I’ve found that the VAST majority of men I’ve been with have ALWAYS found doggy style their favourite position with me and I’m curious – do most guys agree that this is their favourite position and if so, why? Is it because you can go deeper, you like the view, etc etc?
For me, I find it much less intimate and I feel less “involved” in the act when I’m on all fours. I find myself putting on more of a show visually but I don’t always enjoy it from that angle as it can sometimes feel too intense and not in a good way, particularly if the guy is VERY well endowned!
That being said, I am definitely a fan of lying flat on my stomach and being taken from behind, kissing on the neck etc.
There’s no particular point to this query, just something I’ve always wondered!
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It’s not my favourite either. I don’t mind it, but I much prefer seeing my partner. Having said that, most guys I’ve been with, have preferred me on top.
as a man, no. doggy is probably one of my least favorites.
Doggy is my least favorite for that reason. Its impersonal.
Give me girl on top, leaned forward, me in control any day of the week.
I enjoy it a lot. But my husband prefers missionary. But he’s a mushy gushy kinda guy anyway
Lady here, having had my share of guys I can definitely say not everyone likes doggy most. My current one does, but also not all the time. He enjoys that it’s so deep. I also like it as it feels good and I can easily reach my parts… just sucks sometimes when you get air in. :p
Some of my exes just never had much interest in that position.
There is many positions that are extremely pleasureable, but doggy is definitively top 5.
I felt like I was very capable of having a heart attack in that position with my last ex, I love feeling it go so deep but also I get anxiety when trying to cum on top so I think with guys it’s less anxiety cuz u can’t see them
No, not at all. I like to give her the control too. Like when she is riding me from behind, reverse cowgirl position. Where she is in control of the strokes. It ain’t all about the backdoor entry. It’s more likely about how well you both can enjoy the different positions and giving control to each other.
My guys I’ve been with have preferred to finish in doggy style or prone bone. I asked my husband about it once and he said it’s because he can go deeper, it feels tighter and there more pressure and friction for him.
Doggy is my favorite he can go deeper and I love having my cervix pounded. He’s hitting the a spot, anterior fornix it’s up around the cervix for some women it’s like a second g spot and others don’t like it. That’s probably the sensation you’re talking about. It makes me orgasm.
Interestingly enough, men are almost like real people – they have huge ranges in opinions on almost any subject.
I like doggy a lot, but it isn’t my favorite.
I like being overpowered
I (F) like doggy because I can easily use a vibrator on myself. I think my husband likes it for that reason too, because it’s guaranteed to make me cum. However, it is usually not a finisher for him. We usually switch to missionary or me on top. He can’t explain why, he just has a hard time finishing in doggy.
I personally love doggy, it’s the main position that makes me cum from PIV. My partner and I usually start off in missionary for the intimacy, then progress to “rougher sex.” Ending with me on top, I love being in control of his organism and deciding when he can cum in me.
Well I have to agree I prefer doggy over anything else. It’s mechanically the easiest and most efficient way to me. Everything lines up so nicely and just works with generally less effort.
Much prefer prone bone. Relaxes the glute muscles so you get a better ass cushion/bounce than doggy, and the guy can make it plenty intimate by basically laying his entire body on top of the women. Nothing beats good ol’ missionary, though.
I thought that the comments would be full of people who love doggy, but it turns out that for most it’s not their favourite.
So here I am to balance the comments out! I love basically all positions, but doggy is definitely one of my favourites. The view is the best thing about it, but I also love the intensity that you described (when it’s in a good way!).
I understand the feeling of being less involved because you’re not facing each other, but I think a great way to get around that is to combine it with plenty of dirty talk.
Favorite no. But it is extremely physically pleasurable because it’s deeper and tighter. I particularly enjoy it when my wife is on all fours and she backs up on me instead of me thrusting. That sensation is amazing.
However, sex is so much more than that. I like missionary best because I like to watch my wife, particularly watching her orgasm. I can watch her play with herself and see her face when she cums. That’s the best.
My husband’s favorite is reverse cowgirl, but my favorite is doggy style especially if he pulls my hair or pins my arms back. It just hits such a good spot 🤤🤤
I don’t know if it’s a general favorite position—I do think that porn influences the idea of favorite positions. You’ll get guys wanting to do all these acrobatics and ridiculous kinds of positions that only make sense in porn (image over practicality). And, I feel that a lot of porn makes “doggy” style the vanilla or regular position for sex.
Maybe I’m wrong in that aspect. But I genuinely feel that the influence of porn on the brain is significant enough to make a dude go, “yeah…doggy’s what she wants!”
Personally, I like a variety of positions—doggy being one—because I get to see my partner from different angles (especially if mirrors are in play). But if she’s on top, prone, standing—whatever it is, I aim to make sure she’s 1) comfortable and 2) enjoying it. Nobody wants to be bent into a pretzel or jackhammered into oblivion.
Porn. Porn inspires but muddies the waters.
Dude here I want to see her face , kiss her and let her see how much I’m enjoying being with her . I want to see her enjoying me .
I love it but my husband doesn’t really care for it – I’ve never asked him why 🤷🏼♀️
My wife prefers it more than I do 🤷♂️
Doggy is A favorite for sure.
The view is incredible, beautiful ass bent over looks amazing, combine that with pussy exposed and ready…my god what else can you ask for.
There is a submissive aspect that is sexy, it like the woman is giving herself to me, letting me have full control. Asking for it with her body.
The depth, speed, and power I can put into doggy is also a plus, I can go as fast or slow, as shallow or deep as wanted. I can also control the angle, so I can hit her hotspots.
The gf really gets off when I hold her waist and use my grip as leverage, she likes that I have control to do as I please.
I dislike it. I feel bored and lonely and it doesn’t feel that good. Add in the nervous giggles of me watching my boobs swing everywhere hoping they don’t knock me out.
It does hurt a lot sometimes but looking back at him and watching him in the moment is super worth it. I don’t care how sore I am the next few days, actually I kinda like it because it reminds me of what we did 🥺
As a woman, doggy is my absolute favourite, I’m pretty kinky and love it being hard and fast (+ some hair pulling hehe). Love the romantic missionary staring at each other as well though
Hmm my fwb always does me in missionary-ish positions but I would always suggest he do me from the back after a few; same with the men I’ve dated.
Maybe it’s the other guys’ preference? Were they casual sex partners? If so, it might be them trying to avoid that feeling of connection
I agree. It feels very good and I’m an ass man.
My favorite sex position is the Standing Sex Position. I love how woman react to it during and after. Not something I incorporate into daily sex because as you mentioned I do want to see my partners face on a regular basis. But this is still my favorite and usually bust it out when im feeling especially dominant. Highly recommended trying it if you haven’t already. Warning: it can be intense.
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I have multiple mirrors in my bedroom, including one on the ceiling over my bed. Because of this special feature, most guys I sleep with love when I lie on top with my back against them, a variation of reverse cowgirl except they can see all of me from the mirror on the ceiling.
I personally can’t have an orgasm unless I feel powerless and dominated. Most often I feel missionary makes me feel the most pinned down with my feet in the air or behind my head. I also love being able to grip the guy’s body with my legs when he cums, like a don’t you dare pull out, kind of thing.
I also enjoy any kind of sex where I’m standing.
As a dude, nope, doggy, reverse cow-girl, and prone bone are fine; I enjoy it, especially when asked to do them; but my favorite place to be is where I can see my partners face, kiss them on the mouth, neck, boobs, etc. So, missionary (and it’s variations) and cow-girl are my very favorite.
>I’ve found that the VAST majority of men I’ve been with have ALWAYS found doggy style their favourite position with me
Have you given your own ass a frank evaluation as to whether that might be influencing them?
No by far a passionate missionary if my favorite. I enjoy watching my wife’s reactions.
Pushing her head into a pillow is fun at times in doggy but not my favorite 🤣
Dude here–Depends on the day, depends on the partner, depends on the mood, etc., etc., etc.. For sensitive, connection-heavy lovemaking, I like missionary best. For raw, hard fucking, from behind is best because you can go very hard (or appear to) without hurting your partner. Also, there is something kind of primal about the slapping sounds one makes upon thrusting in doggy style.
It’s because it’s primal and makes us feel like strong Caveman, plus the view of the backdoor is super exciting.
Not a big fan of doggy as a guy. It’s fun enough, but when I’m fully hard, I don’t bend at the right angle for that. I do like rear entry positions where my partner and I are in alignment because I have more access to both hold her and explore her erogenous zones.
I like putting them on top of something facing me so we can hug and kiss at the same time.
The women I have been with like to get bent and dominated to some degree, nothing crazy. Also, I think the way they bounce gives them control so they can help to drive the ride.
Makin me horny.
It depends on my partner. My wife prefers to lie on her side, other women I’ve been with like doggy, missionary, cowgirl, it really depends on what gets each woman off. If she can’t orgasm, then I can’t really enjoy myself either.
Being taken from behind is definitely my favourite position. Can’t really describe why! My husband’s favourite is me on top.
As a woman, it’s usually not good unless the giy has already proven to be a good lover. Guys who immediately go for that are usually replicated porn and not terribly aware of a woman’s body. My advice is master the front, make sure they’re into your g spots. Also, speaking from experience, dont let them access to ur ass without some trust established
Not my favorite (I come much harder on top and I like to be facing my husband ) but sometimes I really love it after I’ve orgasmed and I just want him to pound me.
I can propose an anatomical explanation – so, the anterior wall of the vagina has more wrinkles than the posterior one (the so called tree of life) and has the pressure of the pubic bone. Had this to the fact that the most sensitive part of the penis is the frenulum. In doggy style, besides the depth, the frenulum is probably way more stimulated.