Guys I’m mentally fucked up right now . Some chick fell in love with me and told me I made her feel like her old self and that she doesn’t want to be with her husband anymore . She had an affair with me before she left town because we thought it was going to be the last time we were going to see each other . She went to go see him and she said she couldn’t do anything with him because she doesn’t feel anything for him anymore and doesn’t want to be with him anymore BECAUSE she wants to be with ME She told me I make her feel happy and loved and like her old self .
I fucked up . She said she knows what she’s been wanting for a long time and that was being with another female in a relationship and that she wants that with me .
She said she couldn’t just have the courage to do it until I came and gave her that .
Im scared but I really like her and I never forced her to leave him I told her it’s okay maybe we were just meant to be in another lifetime and she even agreed but she couldn’t take it until she saw him and realized she didn’t feel anything for him anymore
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If you “really like her” why are you calling her “Some chick”?
I wish you both all the happiness you deserve.
Yeah you made your bed and now you have to sleep in it. Every action and choice has a consequence. Some are huge and some are minor but they are there none the less.
Sounds like she is in limerence and you need to be afraid of what this means for you and those around you.
She is not mentally okay and you need to distance yourself from her and try to tell her lies to push her away
If you do start a long term relationship with her will you ever feel secure in it knowing she’s capable of having an affair? Or do you suppose you’re unique enough to be the one that breaks her of that?
**EDIT:** just looked at your profile & answered my own question. This is the same woman who’s leaving for the police academy and you’re scared she’ll cheat even though you “know she’s loyal.”
Do you realize what your saying? You don’t really believe that she’s loyal because you know that loyal people don’t cheat.
Loyalty isn’t remaining faithful when you’re feeling butterfly’s that come with new relationships. Loyalty is remaining faithful even when it’s not easy and you’re relationship is struggling.
You feel conflicted because you’re trying to fool yourself into believing something that you know isn’t true.
Loyalty isn’t something you are with one person and not another. It’s a character trait.
So you really like her though? In the same way? I didn’t get that vibe going through the text. It was very much all about how she was into you, how you fucked up, etc. She sounds like she was on the outs with her husband for some time now and that she was just waiting for someone she liked enough to give herself an excuse to leave. Are you familiar with the term monkey-branching in a relationship?
Nice job engaging in a conspiracy to abuse a man who never did a thing against you.
Don’t whine when she cheats on you. You know just whom you’re getting here. You deserve her.