When was the moment you realized you were in love?

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1. I looked in her eyes while on a pier with her and just kinda felt like everything would be alright in my life.

   I dunno how to describe it. Just felt almost weightless like nothing else mattered.

2. When she came over to hang out knowing i had a weekend marathon planned with friends. When she asked what movies we were watching first, i answered “The LOTR trilogy”. Without hesitation she replied “The extended editions right?”

   Thats when i knew.

3. When I was without her for a few weeks (she was travelling) and it felt like my heart was doing that thing where you try to fold a piece of paper in half more than 8 times.

4. When it ended.

5. The first BlowJob and that was 8 years ago

6. We broke up cause I didnt want kids. That came from a place in my head that I thought, which at the time I thought I knew, I would not make a good father. Couldn’t stop thinking about her for two weeks and we talked alot. I knew I didn’t go thourugh life with out her. We have a lovely daughter now, even when she screams in my ear and bites my fingers. Its a good life

7. Falling for her happened quickly (looking back, it actually happened after only a few dates), but the full realization of the weight of it all happened slowly, which seems strange. I’ll spare the details, but basically there was a point where there would have been a natural, easy, and understandable break point about 3 months into the relationship, and there was no pressure on me to stay in. I had the conscious thought that “if you want out, here’s the exit.” And the only thing I could think of was how empty things would be without her, and I couldn’t picture life without her. That’s when the full force of it hit me.

   We had exchanged the “L” word before that, and it was genuine, but the depth of it hit me then.

8. When everyone around convinced me.

9. When the tongue hit my balls

10. When she feels more like a family member than a friend. When I feel super comfortable instead of nervous when I was around her. When I can‘t stop smiling when I saw her.

11. When I started making bad decisions

12. I went to visit her and her family we couldn’t see each other for my birthday cause work and she got a me present of my favorite cologne. I never told her it was my favorite or anything she just saw it in my bathroom. It was the fact someone actually showed interest in me enough to know the small things I enjoy and like really meant a lot.

13. after shooting all over her face

14. We had been dating just over a month and had a huge fight over something stupid. I didn’t talk to her for two days and they were the longest two days of my life. I was dying to call and apologize on the third day.

    Thank goodness she accepted my apology.

15. Never been in love and am not looking to be anytime soon.

16. 2 years ago with my first girlfriend. That didn’t work out. It will be 3 in November.