My partner and I have a nice sex life however there are times when am horny while he just wants to cuddle and it drives me insane. I want to know how do cope with this. I love my partner to death and separation is off the table

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  2. Invest in some good toys. Or explore other options that you’re both okay with…

  4. Well… if it were me, I would grab my toy and play with myself while I’m getting cuddled and ask them to suck my nipples (this is my weakness) then cum and carry on. Haha!

    If he gets turned on, perfect, you can have sex. However, if it’s important to you to have him please you or you please yourself and he helps, you need to make sure you are on the same page. I know we each have different sex drives.

  5. I’m totally in the same boat. It’s brutal. I had a previously satisfying boyfriend who was so good in bed. Literally took a much time as I needed- the very first time I came, it must have taken an hour. He just wanted to see me do it.
    Now my husband just doesn’t go down on me and seems to like the sweet hand holding sex only. I want him to go down on me. I ask for it. I do hints. I’m at the point where if I have any opportunity to do it and make it just about the sec with anyone else, I might.

    I want to be thrown up against the wall, passionately kissed and then told how much I’m loved before he puts me on the bed and makes me cum over and over.

  6. Masturbation is great but non-monogamy might also work. I wish I’d suggested it in my first serious relationship rather than just ending it, I was an idiot

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