We’ve been together a little over a year and we see each other often, but only because I ask if he wants to hang out or I just show up at his house. I have a key and we’re in the process of moving in together so it’s not super unexpected, but still. I like that we’re very casual, but it’d be nice if sometimes he would initiate and say, “hey baby let’s hang out and do something fun tonight.” Whenever we do go out it’s to a certain bar that we always go. Nothing wrong with that really because all our friends go there and it’s more of just a hang out location but sometimes I want to do something different like bike or something. I’m not trying to be picky or high maintenance but I feel like he doesn’t put in very much effort now since we’ve been together for a minute and you can’t expect the exact same results with a different amount of effort. He does work 12 hours shifts, but only certain days of the week so it totals to 40 a week. I try to be mindful when I know he’s tired or just needs to some time to himself, but even on his days off he likes to just chill on the couch and watch soccer or play games. He never minds when I’m here, he just doesn’t ever initiate any quality time. I may be overthinking this. I have brought this up to him before and he doesn’t see the problem really.