The only way I orgasm is by thinking of some seriously degrading and gross stuff. No matter how good the actual act feels, it’s the dark shit in my head that makes me finish. Please tell me there are others that deal with the same thing??? I feel such shame around it!! Am I weird??

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  3. uahaha i cant tell u if it’s weird or not but i have the same thing! like some real degrading dehumanizing sick shit. but i just go on with my day afterwards and dont pay much mind to it, it is what it is

  4. Has long those fantasies aren’t illegal that’s basically fine. But my advice is, maybe, to start to cutt off your porn consumption if you feel you can’t climax without those stimulus. I suffer from the same difficulties sometimes and had some problems in precious relationships because of that

  7. If it’s bothering you (whichbit sounds like is the case), adversely affecting your life, or if you feel compelled to act on something unhealthy, unconsentual or harmful to yourself or others- then seek help from a therapist. There’s safe places to deal with all kinds of stuff, responsibly.

  8. I don’t think it’s weird at all. I am the same way. Only thing I’ve noticed is it does require amping up the fantasy level because even the craziest shit gets normalized in my mind. Doesn’t affect day to day.

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