I know this is silly and doesn’t matter either way. I’m only curious because my current partner has always put it in and I remember being surprised when he did because I always had to be the one to guide with everyone else (in the interest of providing a reference point let’s say i’ve been with between 10-30 partners before him)

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  5. I do when I feel like he is a bit too far down the other way and I dont want to risk it lol

  6. Depends on the position. If fwb is taking me doggy style, he guides it in. If I’m on top I will.

  7. Depends on who’s on top? In my experience if the guy is on top he will, if I’m on top then I will. Never had anything differ from that from what I can currently recall.

  9. depends on the guy. depends on my mood and depends on if he can actually put it in or not

  10. I like doing it myself, but there’s also times where no guidance is needed whatever, or where I’ll let him show himself in.

  11. while rough pounding, sometimes penis escapes from my cunt.

    Then I grab it fast, and guide it to meet my womb.

  12. I’ve never had a woman guide me in. It doesn’t really make sense to me tbh. I’m the one who can actually see where to go, there’s no guessing or feeling around. For her to guide me in seems unnecessarily complicated.

  13. I always miss and go lower than I was meant to so to avoid any misunderstandings I let her do it.

  14. If you are in a more casual relationship like ONS I did it they wanted me to- it was like another form of consent for them – relationship he does it but actually I like him being in control at first gets me going. You could ask if you can do it just change it up. Also, different cultural backgrounds give us different social Norms.

  15. We both do, depending on who has the best angle at the time lol. If your past partners were more casual, maybe they wanted you to do it as an additional layer of consent?

  17. It’s about 70/30 with my bf. I do it more often because i want him inside me so bad and I just can’t wait.

  19. I like when my wife does it, and she loves to do it too. Not because I can’t find the way, but she gets turned on when she does it.

  20. For me and the wife it has defaulted to who ever is on top. The bottom person gets to relax and enjoy.

  22. Depends how easy I find the hole! Sometimes it’s easier than others. Usually after its in, I can easily get it back. But sometimes the initial insertion is tricky.

  23. I didn’t really think about it until I saw your post, but I’ve (m) been the one to put it in 99% of the time. Girl on top tends to be that other 1%. I tend to do a fair amount of rubbing the clit and labia with my penis before inserting but I don’t think that’s the only reason.

  25. Random. I had men who got it in super easy and some who struggle. I’d rather help then having a surprise anal visit.

  26. I kinda like when the woman guides me in. It’s the ultimate form of consent especially when I’m on top.

  27. My wife has always taken charge, from the first time we had sex. I was initially caught by surprise when she first did it, but I found it really sexy

  28. I would say it’s about 75/25 the guy would guide himself in vs me doing it.

  31. My late wife and I did both depending on position. Same now with my husband it’s a both situation.

  32. Sometimes I do, sometimes he does, sometimes we just line up with each other.

  33. Id say he generally does. If it slips out I might help, or if I’m on top I’ll do it, but generally he’s in control so he does it lol

  34. I’ve only really had guys put it in. Like unless I’m on top or there’s an accidental slip (rarer) the guy really takes control here in my experience. But I can see how the female ‘guiding’ can be hot once in a while. Some occasions I’ll intentionally do this to tease the cock but for penetration 90% of the time I’ve had the guys take charge here

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