When me and my girl are about to get it on she gets really wet and we start to have sex and finishes but I try to keep going and I feel her down there and it feels a little drier than how when we started.
Do women get like that after finishing?
I noticed she tells me she can’t anymore and tells me to wait …
Can someone help me understand
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Sex can be uncomfortable after you climax. When sex is uncomfortable sometimes vaginas stop lubricating and tighten. (Get drier)
If someone tells you to *stop* and that they *can’t* that means you stop because they’ve withdrawn consent and said no.
Continuing to have sex with someone who’s told you to stop, or someone who’s not enjoying it *is* sexual assault.
Listen to your partner. They already answered your question.
Very normal and natural. Wetness comes and goes, the human body does what it wants. Also, it’s very common (not universal, but clearly the case here) for women to need a cooling off period after orgasm.
There’s no right or wrong, or rather the only right or wrong is whether or not everyone is having a good time. Communicate with her, listen to her, don’t keep pushing on something if she’s not currently feeling it, have fun and make sure she does too. That’s all there is to it.