I don’t know what to say some things are not meant to happen. All my friends getting girls and matches online and I can’t even get one. We all have similar hobbies and hang out together. I workout I take care of my skin etc and they don’t even workout but still manage to get girls. Also forget about online dating it’s a joke. Sometimes life is not fair I don’t think I am doing anything wrong. I feel shit I feel unwanted and its horrible feeling, I never had girlfriend no matter how many times I try. I used to blame women but now I don’t blame them anymore I don’t blame my self or dating market either. I’ll just have to accept it that I’ll be alone and single forever. I am trying to accept and just move on with my life, improving my life but it’s so hard not think about it.
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Hang in there bro, maybe create some poetry ,art or music with this energy. Let it out in a healthy way, i think there is at least 1 someone for everyone. Also, check out Louis CK.
Its not just you man, ive been through the same exact thing and thought about quitting but still haven’t given up. Years ago it wasn’t working either so i decided to focus on me. Now i have a high paying job, my own business, and learned how to be more charismatic but after rejoining the dating scene its still the same. I get more matches but they lead to disappointment or being ghosted for no reason. Last girl i talked to let me see her side of fb dating and she had 300 matches so she literally goes through people like their nothing, i was the same cause she ghosted me the night after we had a 3 hour deep conversation. Dating nowadays sucks and i think that technology ruined it. If you wanna take a break and focus on yourself I’d highly recommend that cause constant rejection will hurt your mental health. Focus on you and maybe think about trying dating again or not, its your choice
Have you considered that you simply don’t have game? The good news is you can get game, if you are willing to humble yourself and learn that is.
Who wants to date someone with that attitude? You need to change that