I don’t know what it is but I am rarely in the mood for anything sexual and if I engage in sexual activities I can’t cum. Everyone tells me cumming feels like an explosion in waves for them, but I can’t relate to it. I can’t cum from masturbating, oral or PIV. I‘m at my wits ends.. it’s getting so frustrating and I’m ashamed of it.
I don’t even feel much down there.. like I don’t feel if my partner slides in, I don’t feel anything. I don’t even get wet…
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Sorry to hear that, did you enjoy sex before?
I’ll be careful handing out advice to women about sex, haha, but that being said, I always try to remember that sex drive comes and goes. However, there are some things I can do to boost my sex drive. So basically I can eat healthy and work out more, be social and just try to live a good life, libido for me is highly dependent my health and well being. Like, if i’m struggling with depression, anxiety or bad health then sex gets a pretty low priority for me.
So that’s the general advice, and this next one might work best for dudes, but it’s about trying not to think about sex or trying to masturbate. I’ll get so horny after a week that my female coworkers become sexy and at this point I just have to knock one out in the washroom.
Have you ever orgasmed before?