So my boyfriend of six months who I’m madly in love with, and said was madly in love with me, ghosted me for a week after I got frustrated with him for not communicating with me about his schedule and says that he regrets ever meeting me. The day before we went on a date and went home together and then he dumped me rather than talk about our problems. He’s 43 and I’m 29, is there something I did? I don’t understand
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That’s rough. He probably didn’t care about you anywhere near as much as you did about him.
Honestly, that kind of behaviour is shitty and manipulative because he essentially didn’t get his way.
As harsh as this sounds, ask yourself if you really want to continue investing in someone who will hold a threat of leaving or disappearing to cover up his avoidant behaviour.
OP, I wish you well.
Probably he’s a married man with kids. Let him go
So sorry this happened to you. What he did most likely has nothing to do with you. You’d do best to block him so he can’t contact you again (in case he tries to apologize) and know there is better out there for you and move on.
He was 43… I hope you got a couple of bills paid at least cabrón.
lol another age gap relationship gone awry.
If we reverse the role and inserted the words, “he crossed me boundaries” I think people would support that.
Could be many things here, however the conflict went down, perhaps you crossed a boundary or showed him a side he isn’t willing to deal with.
I can’t understand the dating world now. Ghosting has become so common place and it’s just people avoiding responsibility. It’s immature and pathetic. At least have enough dignity to face your problems. I’m sorry that this happened to you. I hope you can find healing and move past this but I think in the long run you might find you’re better off not having attached yourself to someone like this.
I dont get these age gap relationships
He sucks, use this as an opportunity to find someone better