Compared to my previous relationships, my new man definitely has a noticeable size difference and honestly THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. I love him dearly and it’s the emotional connection that matters to me most.
I want to make sure I’m pleasuring him just as many times as he is doing to me. 90% of the time that we’ve had sex, he hasn’t cummed. It kind of bums me out because I’m wondering if I’m not doing something right… but he says it feels good for him and he enjoys it but he doesn’t tell me what he likes. The few times that he has, was completed with oral. But he hates blowjobs and anal
So I’ll need you guys to put together your wonderful brains and give me some ideas of what positions I should try. He is against using toys so, what positions or things do you recommend I should try to satisfy him?
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Missionary and doggy are always easy to get into.
Try riding him with more of side movements as oppose to up and down. Missionary is always a good one, and of course doggy style. Make sure you don’t pressure him and let him feel more comfortable to Theo oint of sharing what works and what doesn’t work.
Reverse cowgirl. Works every time 🙂
I always thought everything would feel good to them because there is such little surface area. Like literally every partner you have could fit all of it in everywhere. Gotta be prettt nice lol.
Yes
2 things.
What’s his size and what do you think average is lmao?
If a guy can’t cum, he should see a doctor and cut back on masturbating. Probably a mix between death grip + performance anxiety.
If you really want to know, ask him what he wants.
Doggy 100% I’m not a man but my most recent ex was smaller than average IMO, or at least the smallest I’ve been with, and he was obsessed with doggy, I think the second would be cowgirl, more grinding, less up and down
Try laying on your side up to the edge of the bed, him standing up on the floor. The point is that you are perpendicular to each other rather than parallel. This will also work with you laying on your back and him laying perpendicular to you in bed, with your legs straight up or over the top of him.
1) Since your legs will be closed by gravity by laying on your side in that option, there will be more pressure which should increase his sensation.
2) When you take the second option of you laying on your back and him laying perpendicular to you in bed, he will tend to go all the way out and back in with each stroke, which is a nice sensation on the head of a penis specifically. The head (and in particular the underside of it) is where the magic happens.
Playing video games. Sex is so boring for me lately. Don’t even try anymore.
> and it’s the emotional connection that matters to me most.
Hahahahahah well, whatever you do, don’t tell him that!
That’d be like saying “yes it makes you look fat, but I’m into chubbs”
Make sure he stops wanking with a vice grip. That will desensitized him, leading to problems. I light touch or fleshlight style toy with lube will help with that.
For positions, Amazon Position is great. Like missionary but with him on his back, legs open and you on top, legs closed. This puts extra grip on his cock and feels good for both. You them fuck him hard or slow- your choice. The change in control dynamic is also a turnon for some.
Pronebone is great if he is big enough to get past hour butt. Otherwise missionary or doggy can be good for smaller guys.
I’m bigger than average, so just taking an educated guess on this advice.