I have noticed with my FWB whenever we have sex I get too wrapped up in watching her reactions to whatever I am doing to her and instead of getting lost in the moment I just feel more like an observer? Is there anything I can do to prevent that from happening so frequently? Or if anyone had any ideas on why it is occurring?
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Try to talk more during sex. Ask her how she feels, tell her how you feel etc. It’ll help put you in the moment.
Have you been evaluated for ADHD/ADD? Sounds like you may have issues staying focused and being fully present.