Alright y’all so my husband and I (both 27, I’m a female) have 2 kids together and we constantly try to spice shit up… We always make sure each other is satisfied and like to talk about how to continue to elevate our sex life… Toys, role play, everything!!
I personally love being choked/tied up/dominated, however, recently my husband revealed he also enjoys the sort 😅😅
I really didn’t see myself as a Dom (although if you knew my personality, you’d be like “seriously? 😅😅” I have always worn the pants in relationships🤷♀️🤷♀️), I just want to make him happy and keep him sexually satisfied/intrigued. I’m worried I’m going to enjoy it too much and actually end up emasculating him when I really don’t mean to 😩😩
Please just any insight into the Dom/sub relation for female Dom to male sub – I need help 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Sincerely a wife trying to elevate that p*$$y game 🤷♀️🤦♀️
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Sometimes as a guy it is just nice to let go and let someone else take the wheel, but it is not for everyone.
I enjoy it in a free-use kind of way – if that makes sense. But not in a derogatory way. As a guy it’s nice to be objectified sometimes.
I’m a switch so I like both roles, but I do love being dominated by the girl…nothing too extreme but things like extreme dirty talk, smothering me with her pussy/sitting on my face telling me to eat her, some biting and light scratching, using my dick as her personal toy, telling me not to cum, slapping my dick or gently tugging my balls to calm me down if im too close to cumming, etc…
I switch but as a sub, my wife never wants to go as far as I am willing to take it. Inquire about prostate play. A surprising number of men secretly want to do it.
Also, tell him if he cums inside of you, he has to clean it up. (That way he has an out if he’s not willing to do that.) It’s incredibly hot and I love doing it.
He may not so much be looking to be dominated, but rather you taking control from time to time. Let’s say he makes you breakfast in bed. He wants you to relax while he does all the work. Like a mini vacation. He probably just wants a little vacation from what he normally does in the bedroom. No harm in letting him relax and enjoy what you can do if you were given the reigns.
Please
When my GF is in the mood and wants to take control, I give it up, willingly, because it’s really fucking hot.