So I started working at this new job and so far it’s been cool and all but it’s a retail job and I always get annoyed or stressed out at work but that’s just how I am I guess. Anyways there is this coworker who sometimes is my closing supervisor but normally she works in another department.
Recently Whenever I see her at work I can tell she doesn’t want to say hello or even look at me when I pass by her and to me I’m thinking that she doesn’t like me when I barely know her? I started to realize that maybe she thinks that I am stuck up or unfriendly because I’m a pretty big dude with a mean looking face and maybe she thinks I don’t like her or I’m an asshole.
I don’t think I’m an asshole or anything but I guess my whole appearance and how I talk could come off as a snobby person but in all honesty I’m not. I guess I have trust issues so I don’t become overly friendly with new people that I meet so it takes a while for me to get along with new people. I’m pretty introverted as well so sometimes if I think someone doesn’t like me I tend to be a little intimidated by them. So therefore I don’t talk to them. I do wanna talk to her and maybe explain to her that I’m not who she thinks I am but I struggle to have an honest conversation with someone that I barely know.