**I’m 17 years old and not as horny as I used to be, when I was 16 I was always horny and all I thought about was sex, now I don’t think about it a lot and don’t really care about getting a girlfriend. I’m really worried please help. I definitely had a genuine attraction toward women before but now it’s not as strong. Please help because I am worried and kind of scared if there is something wrong with me like if I am losing my attraction toward women or I am becoming gay or something. Keep in mind I am fat and have a masturbation addiction.**
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As a fellow fat person, weight and fitness have a huge correlation to libido.
As someone who also masturbated a ton as a teenager, my best advice would be try to tone it down if it’s interfering with your day to day life (ie you skip doing things with friends/family/whoever to masturbate) the more I masturbate, the less horny I get too. It gets boring.
Certainly try to cut down on porn (if you use it exclusively) at 17, your imagination can be a damn fine tool to get yourself off.
Stress can also lead to a lowered libido.
So, instead of jerking off after school or dinner or whatever, go for a walk instead. Make a new routine and find other ways to make your body (and mind) feel good.