My wife and I are newly married (2.5 years) and we both work SO MUCH. So I decided to book a little beachside boutique hotel for us to reconnect! My question is since we only have limited time should we try to book an activity (wineries, horse back riding, spa day) or should we just be lowkey and explore the town and see where it takes us? Thanks!
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If we take a trip usually the first day we CHILL and the second day we book 1 or 2 activities and explore.
I think it all depends on your wife. Some people prefer to always be active and others prefer to relax. You could plan some activities as well as relaxation time.
Be relaxed and chill the first night, even grab takeout and eat it near the beach so you don’t have to dress up, just enjoy each other. Then plan a morning spa activity for you both to unwind. Maybe she’d appreciate a low pressure beach experience, but then be so surprised that you planned something specific and thoughtful…even while stressed and overworked yourself! Enjoy your weekend ☺️
It depends on what your wife likes. Many people would say just chill while a whole other group would say, lets do activities!
Where are you going?
My husband booked a resort and a cruise. All I do is be busy and trying to upkeep everything in sight. I would do a combination but upgrade the hotel stay to 3 days. Get you a travel planner from the vacation planning websites and grab those good discounts. take a look around town on the tour buses they have there. Also look around online for travel guides of”what to do” I wanna explore the mountains, parks, and etc. I hate sitting down
If you’ve got like a weekend, I’d split it! Maybe do 1 or 2 activities the first day and just chill the second
If you guys are very busy in your regular lives, I would go low key. Sleep in if you want and just relax, especially since you are only there for a few days. I think a spa day would be great and maybe enjoying 1 really nice restaurant for dinner.
Life is regimented enough. Lowkey. See where the day brings you.
Can you decide that spontaneous when you are there? If you both feel you would prefer to just relax then just relax, if you feel like, hey let’s do some horseriding, jump on the back (softly) of the horse.
One activity a day is not so bad. Start around noon. You can sleep in and also explore with one activity.
I’ve always found that low key adventures tend to be the more fun option.